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Greetings, Thank you for stopping by my little space on the World Wide Web. My blog is intended to be a friendly, informative space where you can pick up tips and tricks. I am Dani and 25 years old. Just like most other twenty somethings I thought I had a life plan after university and planned to take my Broadcast Journalism degree to the city. However, things do not happen like that as in my final year I learned I was pregnant and would be facing it alone. My blog covers the ups and downs without sugar coating (although i do love sugar). Finishing a degree and starting a master with a two month old baby was hard and I intend to cover all aspects of the unexpectedness and unconventional start of my family. I am in a place where I could not be happier with my family; Jack, Alexander and baby bear in my tummy. I will concentrate on my pregnancy, getting back in shape, diet and exercise and pulling it all together with no sleep. Alongside, I also plan to share my personal wedding planning journey. . Having worked as an Event manager I am thrilled to be organising my own wedding. I plan to do most of it myself and will talk you through DIY tips and tricks.

Sunday, 5 June 2016

Unravelling gender mysteries

Hello friends,

After extensively studying the nub and skull theory following my 12 week scan (and old wives' tales recounted to me in the hundreds!) I couldn't come to a clear conculsion what gender my bump could be.. I have been very nautious (girl?) but at the same time I am carrying low and the baby appear to me to have more of a rectangular skull and jaw (so boy!?).

Having been through this rollercoaster ride (and now knowing the outcome!) I thought I'd share what I learned with all you potential mothers:

Take a look in the link - but a summary of the theories is as follows:
  • A foetus with a pubic nub sticking up at an angle of 30 degrees or more is said to likely be a boy 
  • If the nub is forked (not stacked, more details in the article) and flat or pointing downwards it is more likely to be a girl.
  • There is also the skull theory; a girl is said to have a circular skull whereas boys are more rectangular. 

 
I think mine was both at an angle and forked.. which left me a bit confused! (Please note the theory is just that at this time - not conclusive). What do you think, looking at my photo?

My 12 week scan photo, clearly showing girl's forked nub at the end but also at an angle 
which, when put to the voters on the babybump app, was deemed boy-like.


Now onto the exciting part! I had my gender scan and I know the sex.  See the photos below for my announcement!


Get ready....

The paint on my top is to be revealed! 

It's a girl!!  



I am absolutely thrilled to be having a baby girl! I feel so complete and Alexander is excited to be a big brother to a little sister! πŸ’—πŸ’— :-)


Leave a comment if you've had any experiences with these theories - do you know of any successes or obvious failures using them? Report back any new findings in your-baby meeting travels too!

Have a great day whereever you are, from us 4(!)




Sunday, 28 September 2014

Baby and Child Cake (No added Sugar, All Natural)

One thing I am very aware is sugar with a child. Having a sweet tooth myself and seeing the damage sugar does, I am determined not the let my child have too much as all children are perfectly happy without (if they don't know the taste). On birthdays my 'rule' can be hard to stick too. However, I have made sugar free cakes with success for two birthdays now, and have received many comments on how people prefer my sugar free cake to the normal cake mixture

Here is my recipe:

INGREDIENTS 

Four ripe banana's mashed
One apple puree (HIPP Organic)
Vanilla Extract
One cup of self raising flour
1 tsp Baking powder
3/4 of a coup of oats
1tsp cinnamon
One egg

METHOD 
Add the flour, egg, and, oats and puree into a bowl. Get an electric mixture and whizz up these ingredients. Next add the banana, vanilla, and cinnamon and whiz for a further two minutes. Bake in a pre-heated oven for 25/30 minutes. 

    Icing:
    1 1/2 tablespoons of meringue powder
    1 teaspoon of vanilla extract
    1 teaspoon of lemon juice
    2 cups of powdered splenda
    1/4 cup of warm water
    Food colouring

Mix the powdered splenda and meringue powder. Add the vanilla, lemon juice and food colouring. Now add water and beat for 5 minutes (until stiff peak forms) In th ebowl of the mixer, whip together the sugar an meringue powder. The icing will be ready now. 








Thursday, 25 September 2014

Butternut Squash, Ginger, Sweet Potato and Chilli Soup (RelievesMorning Sickness and Nausea)

HIYA all you baby boomers,

Todays post is for all you pregnant people (and those not). It is a delicious soup recipe that has health benefits as well as helps with sickness and even those closure to their due date (trying to push the baby out). The soup is one of my favourites so you try it and let me know what you think.

Butternut Squash, Ginger, Sweet Potato and Chilli Soup

BENEFITS

This recipe is super low in calories, GI and saturated fats. Butternut squash is a superfood known for its poly-phenolic antioxidants, vitamins, fibre and phyto-nutrients (Ξ± and ß-carotenes, cryptoxanthin-ß, and lutein, which convert Vitamin A in the body). It also contains Tryptophan known for a healthy neuro-chemical in the brain. Ginger is known for relieving GERD, Gastro problems and reflux, as well as increasing immunity, easing sickness (in a safe way opposed to over the counter medications which can call abnormalities) protecting against certain cancers and being inflammatory. Chillies do numerous things but the most applicable to pregnancy is fight inflammation, is a natural pain relief, helps the heart and cleanse the blood and lower the risk of type 2 diabetes (can happen in pregnancy).  

THE RECIPE 

Two large butternut squash
2 sweet potato 
One Baking potato (if desired, although normal contains carbs)
2 onions 
1 chilli plus chilli powder
coconut milk (jar)
piece of ginger
water (until its covered all the veg)
One Hand-held blender or food processor 
fresh Coriander finely chopped 

INSTRUCTIONS

Preheat the oven to 180 degrees. Use almond oil/sunflower oil and roast off the butternut squash and one of the sweet potato. Once this has been done put the roasted veg in a large saucepan and add another sweet potato and a baking potato, onion, water and ginger (grated in). Leave for 20-30 minutes until the potato's are soft. Blitz up all your ingredients in your blender. Add the coconut milk and chilli and bring up to boil (beware chilli does intensify with heat). Should be orange in colour but also creamy.  Best served with fresh coriander and muesli bread (with raisons in). 

(If you already have a child do the same but keep some separated without the chilli. I know i did tonight and my little boy LOVED IT)

Here is a picture of the soup: 

Enjoy, you guys deserve it. 

Wednesday, 24 September 2014

Pram review

When shopping for your new arrival one of the fundamental items is choosing a pram. This is an incredibly exciting part of the pregnancy and a part to prepare for your baby. Some places where you can go and try out new buggies are baby and toddler shows, Mothercare, Toys r Us, Mama's and Papa's to name but a few.

When choosing a pram the choice, like most things, can be overwhelming. First of all there are different choices; a travel system (including carseat, baby cot, Footmuff and pushchair) or a combo of these, or a simple pushchair. Some people opt to get a baby cot and pushchair separately, whilst others prefer the whole system.

I went for the whole system as it seemed like a better deal to me. Whilst browsing I found some of these lacked quality so be careful and read reviews. The iCandy and Silvercross are the most famous and reliable brands out there, although they come with a heavy price tag.

I found a French brand called Petite Star Extreme Charisma. The reviews seemed great, it meet safety requirements and the brand had baby awards. I also loved the fact it has real tyres and is one of the major buggies made for walking in woods, or pretty much anywhere. Living in the country made this an important aspect

I got mine for £295 off Amazon. For this you get the following:

Three wheel Pushchair
Baby cot
Car Seat with new born head support
Footmuff
Bumper Bar
Handpump
Footrest
Basket

Overall I was impressed. All the material is washable and I loved having all the parts. I think it looks very sleek and slender













Links 
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Petite-Star-Charisma-Pushchair-raincover/dp/B004ZXUJVI

http://www.pushchairtrader.co.uk/en/pushchair-reviews/petite-star-charisma/

I am in no way affiliated with this brand of products.