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Greetings, Thank you for stopping by my little space on the World Wide Web. My blog is intended to be a friendly, informative space where you can pick up tips and tricks. I am Dani and 25 years old. Just like most other twenty somethings I thought I had a life plan after university and planned to take my Broadcast Journalism degree to the city. However, things do not happen like that as in my final year I learned I was pregnant and would be facing it alone. My blog covers the ups and downs without sugar coating (although i do love sugar). Finishing a degree and starting a master with a two month old baby was hard and I intend to cover all aspects of the unexpectedness and unconventional start of my family. I am in a place where I could not be happier with my family; Jack, Alexander and baby bear in my tummy. I will concentrate on my pregnancy, getting back in shape, diet and exercise and pulling it all together with no sleep. Alongside, I also plan to share my personal wedding planning journey. . Having worked as an Event manager I am thrilled to be organising my own wedding. I plan to do most of it myself and will talk you through DIY tips and tricks.

Monday 24 October 2016

38 Weeks - Induction

Hello everyone,

Just got back from the hospital (after spending numerous hours in and out over the last few days) and found out that firstly I definitely have cholestasis and will be induced on Wednesday. Feeling pretty over whelmed right now it is so surreal. So 8.30am Wednesday we will go in if things haven't kicked off alrea

dy (had a sweep and already 3cm dilated). Then we will have the induction and baby (no name) will be here.

So since i last posted I ended up going to the triage on Thursday where it was detected that my bile levels had risen significantly. I also had an iron transfusion today due to seriously low iron which could be dangerous through birth. As soon as the midwife heard I was 38 weeks she said ' you are need to be induced ASAP' so looks like we will have an October baby not November. The reason for this is the bile can be dangerous for the baby and increase the risk of stillborn.

Trying to keep everything as normal as possible for Alexander. He thinks he is going for a sleepover at Mama and Papa's on Wednesday. Will see how long it takes and then at some point when I am in active labour they will make the call to let him know. Have a present packed in my bag from 'the baby'.


Here are some last picture of the bump.



Wish me luck. I am super nervous. My growth scan estimated 5 pounds 8 (last week and they grow approx 1 pound a week) so she may be smaller than Alexander who came out at 8 pounds of awesomeness.




Tuesday 18 October 2016

Nursery Reveal and 37 Week Update

Hey friends,

It's been a while since I last posted. We have all been very busy with Alexanders new founded social life,  house DIY and spending quality time together as a three.

Health and wellbeing 

The itchiness has been gradually getting worse and bile levels higher each week. This is linked to a condition named Obstetric Cholestasis which starts in late pregnancy and can be dangerous for the baby. Click here for more information on OC.  I have been told I could be induced at any point now which prompted a massive panic weekend of preparation. I am glad to say I am all ready just waiting on hearing from the midwife. Apart from that I am pretty uncomfortable and finding it difficult to sleep at night. Thank god for daytime naps.

Mood 

I feel very positive! I started local NCT class (something I missed out on with Alexander) which has helped. Alexander has been showing signs that he is a bit unsettled  (clingy) so been trying to focus on him and spending time!  He is so very helpful and loved preparing his baby sisters room! He keeps asking for cuddles and kisses so I keep reassuring him. He has been having a few random tantrums especially when we leave for "baby class". He is an absolute superstar though and is so caring and kind natured. My heart bursts every time I get him from school and he smiles and runs up to me. Below is an article I read and sums up how I am feeling and how we are all doing this together side by side.

Click here http://www.baby.co.uk/mum_stories/a-letter-to-my-toddler-as-he-becomes-a-big-brother/#prclt-vA3Y1IRH

House 

We have been busy trying change to study into the nursery which has led to us doing a renovation project upstairs to make a new study and master suite. At the moment things are a bit of a mess however we hope to finish by Christmas! I am loving the autumn vibe, pies, candles and cosy night evenings under the blanket.












That's how things are coming along. I plan to do a what's in my hospital bag and essentials post in the next few days. 

Love Dani 




Thursday 15 September 2016

Pink Baby Shower

Hey,

I celebrated my baby shower last weekend as well as my little boys first day at school. It was a busy week!

For my baby shower I started preparing on Wednesday. Firstly I kitted the place in Pink! Then I got games/party ideas off the internet. Most of my games came from Amazon.

Food-wise:

I did a 'Taco Bar' with Taco shells acting as cots. I made a massive slow cooked chilli con carne, cheese fondue, guacamole, soured cream, peppers and veg and bread and nachos. It was a help yourself deal.

Dessert:

Jack and I made an epic cake (see photos below with stages). I also did a sweetie station. Inside the cake was a milk bottle meant to be the next person to have a baby. funny enough my son got it which is pretty accurate as his baby sister is due in less than two months.

Drinks: 

I made four varieties of non-alcoholic cocktails. These were Pina Colada, Damson and orange punch, Fruit Punch and Pink lemonade.

Entertainment: 

The games we played were
- Facts about Mummy
- Blindfolded nappy change
- Baby Shower Charades
- Guess whose baby image
- Stick The Dummy blindfolded
- Baby shower predictions (with a prize after for who was closest). This one is great as have them all to look at.
- I also had baby ice melts with first one melting shouting 'my waters broke'. I didn't get round to playing this game.

Favours:

I made little favour packets with candles for everyone to light on the night she is born. I also put pink bonbon and sweets in the packs.

Theme and Dress:

The theme was pink. I put on the invitation IMPRESS
IM- Bring an Image
P- PINK- Wear something Pink
ESS- DREss

I wore a tight fitted dress which was deep red. I had a clashing Pink sash saying 'yummy mummy to be'




Decor 









Cake 


Games 



What did you do for your baby shower? Really enjoyed planning mine :)

Tuesday 6 September 2016

31 Week Update

Gosh! 31 Weeks.


Health and Cravings

I found out that i am really quite anaemic. This comes as no surprise as I am anaemic at the best of times. I am now on three iron tablets a day!

On top of that my anaemia is linked to something called Pica disease which explains my ice cravings. I literally am getting through four trays (or more) a day. Pica is common during pregnancy and those with low iron. It should go away after. It also explains my obsession with smells such as bleach, steam, hoovers, london tube, laundry bathroom flash etc. I am addicted to these smells (more than usual) it is actually quite weird. I feel like my iron tablets are my 'crazy pills' and I am hoping they will kick in.

Mood

My mood is all good and positive. I am starting to organise things. Been doing loads of DIY restorations on baby items such as wardrobe, cot, dresser etc. Also planning our new master suite which I am thrilled with the design.

This week

My baby boy starts school. I cannot believe he is four years old! He looks just adorable in his uniform and hat. I know i am going to cry on his first day but need to hold it together for him. Gosh I have spent the last four months working from home and with him everyday. Cannot believe he will be going off. I also keep getting these waves of sadness that it is not going to be just three of us and that he will have to share me. I know my heart will just stretch for both of them and I am so excited yet part of me feels like I will lose this special connection with my boy.

This week will also mark my baby shower. My very PINK baby shower. I am so excited for it. Been planning food and games as every self-respecting event manager would.

That is all to update. Check out the photos below.








Thursday 18 August 2016

Pregnancy Skincare

Greetings!

My skin does not agree with the pregnancy hormones. I am still waiting for the 'pregnancy glow' that everyone talks about. In fact I get angry under-the-skin cystic acne. Being pregnant means I have stopped using my retinol serum which usually helps my skin. Here are the products I have found useful in managing pregnancy acne.


Morning:
Cetaphil gentle cleanser Buy Here
Sudocream
Superdrug Vitamin E Daily Moisturiser with SPF
Superdrug Vitamin E oil (also used for facial massage) Buy Here
Primer- Bare Minerals Buy Here
Liz Earle - Spray Facial mist Buy Here


Evening
Origins Checks and Balances Foamy Face Wash Buy Here
Foreo Lumea - for application Buy Here
Vitamin C drops on face
First Aid Beauty Ultra Repair Cream Buy Here
Estee Launder Advanced Night Repair Serum Buy Here


Weekly

Every three days I will give myself a facial massage


Once a week I will give myself an at-home-facial. This consists of a exfoliation, face mask, steam, nose strip and some light extraction.

I also found microdermabrasion to be amazing for my skin. It literally decongested me completely. The only thing I would say is do not pay over £20 as essentially it is a hoover (pretty sure you could make one at home).




Wednesday 17 August 2016

Pram Reviews - Pram with charging dock, small enough to take as hand luggage and so on

Buying a pram can be so overwhelming. There are so many choices and varieties out there. There are options for whole travel systems; including car seat, flat cot and stroller or just stroller. Some people like to get a pram and then stroller and others like on suitable from birth all the way through.

When a baby is born it is important they lie flat. This is because their backs are not formed yet. When choosing a pram it will usually tell you if it is suitable from birth. 

Having had the Petite Sta Charisma last time I was pretty happy with it. I never used the car seat in the pram but did get use out of the flat cot and pram. It has rubber wheels meant for running - which is great for the country side but also prone to punctures. 

This time round I know a lot more about what I am after. Below is my specification: 

- Carry Cot
- Pram
- If rubber wheels have a detachable option. 
- Drinks holder (so useful) 
-Something not too heavy or bulky when folded 
- Not too low if possible. Loads of the prams out there seem to be very low to the ground. 

Reviews are below:

Most Expensive 

Icandy - For the Yummy Mummy's

The Icandy is the creme de la creme of prams. All the yummy mummy seem to have one. They come with a heft price tag- nearly £800 plus £150 for carry cot. Click here to view. They have no puncture tyres and are fluid in movement and manoeuvring. They easily go from single to double strollers and come in a variety of models colours and shades.  Great all rounder for all terrain.

The downsides are the price and they scratch easily and the price. 

Bugaboo Cameleon Classic Pushchair 

The Bugaboo is said to also be an all terrain pushchair although reviewers say that it is most suited to street. It has a height adjustable handle bar. This price comes in at nearly £900 for carry cot and pushchair (on par with icandy). The pushchair is said to be lightweight, well made and manoeuvrable. 

The downsides are the price and the brakes which can be improved. Mothers also find some difficulty on small streets. 


4Moms Orgami- For the gadget geek - technology stroller you can charge your phone from.

The 4moms stroller is super high tech. It is the first power folding pushchair and hosts a usb charging dock (powered from self charging wheels), temperature, lights and speedometers/tripomoters. This stroller holds four drinks and I totally love it. It is very easy to push

It comes in at £800 for stroller and carry cot. It is both forward and rear facing. Click here for more info and to buy

The downsides are that is it expensive and heavy. Although it self folds this may not be suitable for mums who are not strong and have to lift the stroller in and our of cars/transport. The front wheels do not lock so it is also not suitable for all terrain.


Midrange 

BabyZen Yoyo Stroller- So small and compact it can fit in hand luggage

This pushchair can be used from birth as well. The main selling point it it is so small and compact it can fit into hand luggage- perfect for small boots and ease as one handed fold.  This is also perfect for the city and public transport. The Yoyo can be both forward or rear facing too and is compatible with main brand car seats. The price comes in at £485 for carry cot and stroller. 


The main downsides is that there is a small shopping basket and the brake sometimes catches. This also may not be suitable for those wanting to go all terrain and living in the country.


Mama and Papas Armadilo Flip Pushchair and Carry Cot

This travel system comes with a travel cup, carry cot, adapters and stroller. The best thing about this stroller is how versatile it is- baby can face you, easy fold and manageable. There is also a toddler handle attachment. It comes in at £599 and can be bought at very.co.uk.

Downsides- Perhaps not suited to all terrain and more of a city stroller.


Uppababy Vista- Great for extending families and adding double strollers.

The selling point of this system is that not only can you get the stroller and carry cot but there is also options to convert it into a double stroller with a simple adapter. This would be great for those with twins, or two babies under two. It comes in at £699.95 and can be bought from John Lewis. Reviewers comment on the ease of assembly/fold,

The downside is like any double pushchair it can be bulky. The manoeuvrability can also be a bit hard at times.


Budget Friendly 

Joie Travel System- 

3 in 1- stroller, carry cot and car seat pushchair. Makes moving babies easy and gives both forward and rear facing options. Retails for £399.95 and can be purchased here. Can also get a toddler board attachment for this buggy.

Downsides- although can fold down to be very compact it is very heavy for a single person to manage particularly on public transport. Ride is sometimes not smooth



Hauck Malibu Travel System

Another good cheaper system range with carseat. Easy to fold and small enough for small cars. Both forward and backwards facing Can be purchased here or here for Hauk Lacrosse. Both varieties between £300-350 for everthing.

Downsides- Mother complain that some parts are compromised on quality such as footrest is flimsy. The handle bar also does not adjust to different heights.



UberChild Evo 3 in 1

Another cheaper travel system on the market. Comes in a variety of colours and patterns. Lightweight and sturdy forward and rear facing. Folds down small, can buy more air filled wheels and can be bought here http://uberchild.com/uberchild-evo.html on a special discount of £239.99.





I hope that has been useful. Out of these prams there are so many I love. Just have to decide which one to go for.

Please let me know your thoughts if you have any of the above. 












Friday 12 August 2016

28 Week Update

28 Week Update 

28 Weeks means just 12 left :) It is getting real now.

Here is my latest update:

Work: 
Been working on a consultancy piece which was so interesting. I love projects and exercising my mind. Been watching tutorials of Adobe Premiere as fully trained in Avid and FinalCutPro thought I would add it to my skill set. Watch out for videos coming soon. 

Cravings: 
Ice, ice baby. Yes that is right I crave and eat ice all day. Luckily it is a cheap craving. People laugh and tell me I have a 'skinny girl' craving. I do also love sweets though. 

Mood and health:
Mood is positive. However I have had a wisdom tooth break through which is painful. I feel like one big growing hub. The worst thing I have been experiencing is painful leg cramps all night. Ouch- I jump out of bed to stretch out- not fun. 

Appointments:
I had my 28 week appointment yesterday. Same as normal (listening to heart, measuring the bump and blood pressure) although she took blood on this one. 

Things to do: 

I still have not got anything I need yet. Been looking at prams though and will do a review of my findings in the next post. 


That's all for today. Short and Sweet. 

Monday 25 July 2016

Baby Girl Shopping + What I Need Second Time Around

Hey all you lovely people,

I have been doing some shopping lately for my baby girl. It has made me so excited to have a girl and do joint shopping trips with her. I hope to go to the spa and nails and shopping when she is older :).

She will be born in November which is mid winter. I have been buying round the season, especially in the BHS closing down sale and Mothercare sale.











What I Still Need? 

Unfortunately I still need a lot. My pram and travel system got left by a leaking washing machine and is completely mouldy. I need a baby monitor, feeding gliding chair, electric pump and changing dresser. 

What does everyone else need to buy? Anyone have any really good suggestions for baby bits especially a pram. I am looking for one thats not too bulky or heavy.